Archive for December, 2008

what will matter?

Tuesday, December 30th, 2008

Ready or not, some day it will all come to an end. There will be no more sunrises, no days, no hours or minutes. All the things you collected, whether treasured or forgotten, will pass to someone else.

Your wealth, fame and temporal power will shrivel to irrelevance. It will not matter what you owned or what you were owed.

Your grudges, resentments, frustrations, and jealousies will finally disappear.

So, too, your hopes, ambitions, plans, and to-do lists will all expire. The wins and losses that once seemed so important will fade away.

It won’t matter where you came from, or on what side of the tracks you lived.

It won’t matter whether you were beautiful or brilliant. Your gender, skin color, ethnicity will be irrelevant.

So what will matter? How will the value of your days be measured?

What will matter is not what you bought, but what you built; not what you got, but what you gave.

What will matter is not your success, but your significance.

What will matter is not what you learned, but what you taught.

What will matter is every act of integrity, compassion, courage and sacrifice that enriched, empowered or encouraged others to emulate your example.

What will matter is not your competence, but your character.

What will matter is not how many people you knew, but how many will feel a lasting loss when you’re gone.

What will matter is not your memories, but the memories of those who loved you.

What will matter is how long you will be remembered, by whom and for what.

Living a life that matters doesn’t happen by accident.

It’s not a matter of circumstance but of choice.

Choose to live a life that matters.

Get up, dress up and show up. …

Monday, December 29th, 2008

No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up. …

I don’t know where does this sentence from,however, I feel it is powerful. As it goes”No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up……”. This is what time goes. It never stopped and everything is moving step by step. Nothing would quit even you feel that you world is broken, you couldn’t do anything because you are unhappy or unsuccessful. The world would not be worse for your failure or be better for your success. Sometimes you could only see that negative or active aspects but not both.

Don’t worry or too much exited no matter what is happening. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

Merry X’mas

Wednesday, December 24th, 2008

It is the day in China though it will be the day tomorrow. I found some pictures and sent my wishes to my American friends and clients. It is the most important festival to them.

Forget it! I will not get together with my family for the upcoming examination in the first quarter of Jan, 2009. Hope this would be a successful attempt.

Replies is less than days before, no one answered my emails. We should have some days off as American companies,right? It seems to be a waste of time.

I searched online even the whole day to find some good websites for reading. Yes, I got some and recoganized that we are so lucky that living in China because we have so many opportunities to got free things online. I am stand behind anti-copyright party but I am really poor to buy everything I need.

Gr8 day, Gr8 mood.

Fish Liang’s Concert

Monday, December 22nd, 2008

I went to see Fish Liang’s concert.She is a pop singer from Malaysia.It was a big surprise that she did a great job. I thought she maybe a little bit weak of breath during the process of her singing. However, everything is big surprise including the fans there. Her voice is really good,soft and warm. I love one of her song which is “ it is a pity that it wasn’t you.” Great song!

Jsessica and I went to the stadium and backed to the university at night together. So wonderful and unforgetble, it was a great weekend. Thank you Fish Liang,in Chinese “梁静茹”。

Testing the new function of MSN

Friday, December 19th, 2008

Wow! How much I love this function which helps me escape from login and log out online.It is so helpful. However, there is no connection with my Chinese blog. If yes, it would be wonderful and perfect.

Christmas Day is coming. The most important Western Day. No work, no sorrow, only happy, warm and family.

Tom replied and give me some advices on Merger and Acquisition. It is like in a big hole,even you don’t know where is the direction, you have to insist on walking and going straightly. Work is tough for me.

Jason Sham, the cute boy from Canada, chatted with me through MSN. I didn’t forgot him but I couldn’t recoganize who he was because there are too many Jason in my MSN. Both of us are in similar situation of work. Well,in this tough economy situation and the coming new year, no one will give it up.

I feel that I will complete one of the mission. Earlisha contacted me with detail inforamtion of her company. Everything seems to be bright and hopeful.

I am tired each day though the upcoming examination is closer. I have to read books for around two hours each night. It is not because I hate to read then I complained here, it is that I have to read the boring text books and I have been doing this for more than two months.

Ting and Vina talked about makeups and clothes everyday, they are two of my best friends. We shared sorrow,happiness,music and thoughts each day. The group is just like a shelter of the tough working days. Thanks to someone give them to me. Every kind and wam heart friend is a present that someone send to me. I love them and thank you.

Nana. 12.19.2008