Archive for February, 2009

Things I hate 1

Monday, February 16th, 2009

1. Smoking wherever you are.

2. Drinking too much.

3.Too much fat.

4.Eating too much meats.

5.Violence.

6.Wars.

7.Anyone control me.

8.Anyone disturb my when I am reading and writing.

9.Time files without any improvement.

10. Without goals of life.

And u?

To do right things not to do things rightly.

Thursday, February 12th, 2009

I was once that one who does things rightly. I started to change when I recoganized that not everyone’s idea is your idea and you idea will be the right one for yourselft. It is coincidence that I read more and more comments like this. I am different because I am just like myself not you and him. To do right things but not to do things rightly.

Most of us have to work for the boss because not everyone is brave enough to open his or her company. Some of the bosses feel that they are the right one though they are sometimes wrong. Please do believe that you are the professor in fact not the boss.Just do right things!

One Crazy Busy Weekend

Monday, February 9th, 2009

I had one crazy busy weekend with dinners,co-workers,friends and my family. Sounds like I am still in the New Years’ holiday though it is one week later already.

With coworkers, the most popular topic is The Company we worked for. No matter we left or we are still there, that is a good topic to discuss when we have no more topics as with our intimate friends. No matter how long I have left some of the companies, I left with my best wishes.

With friends, you always have many topics to discuss, from work to life, from hate to love. I sang songs in KTV club with my friends Saturday and found I could make my heart in more songs to sing it as my own songs. I bought some beautiful necklaces for myself, those cheap and wonderful necklaces will make me fabulous. Haha!

With family, you always hope eveyone could be health year by year. We had dinners in a large resteraunt and talked easily. Family is always where the power from.

Sometimes, coworkers could become friends even family member in the right time. To make each day and each one count is the best way for life.

It is getting warmer in Harbin. I changed the heavy winter clothes feel happy and relax. Keep this feeling for a long time!

To Make it Through

Monday, February 2nd, 2009

I have never thought about to be a marketing lady, well, I am really is one right now. I couldn’t imagine to make cold call and trying my best to find a client with cost-effective method before I did this. I am doing everyday now.

To be frank, it is not marketing but business development as in Chinese marketing is the same to sale and business development in English. I hated this kind of work before because I don’t like communicate with people by methods except hearts. As I have been doing this for half a year, I feel that to communicate with people via methods is as important as via hearts. Sometimes we couldn’t directly answer or ask soemthing, we have to go through another way, that is method.

I don’t like complaining difficulties in my life and my work because I clearly know that everyone is facing the similar situation with me as they are alive in this real world.

Well, difficulties are there to be overcome whoever you are and no matther how rich you are.

This is tough time to me. I couldn’t find any projects and I don’t know where is the right way to go for get projects. At the beginning, my coworker and I searched via google, superpages and we found some software development companies, we sent cold emails to them, we made cold call…… No projects come at all!

After about six months working, I found Linkedin, one of the popular SNS website for people like me. I signed in to find some projects. Well, to make some real mutual trust relationship is really hard. Until now, there are still no available answers.

I don’t want to waste too much time though I feel strongly that I am wasting my time when I got no result after hard working days. More terribly, I feel confused about my future. This is not who I dreamed to be, what I dreamed to do.

To be a successful marketing lady? It is not only my hard working but also needs some supports from the company to advertise and make this company famore.

Oh! I just want to record my words in mind of each day.

A New Beginning

Sunday, February 1st, 2009

We have seven days off for Chinese New Year last week. I thought I would make good use of the seven days and think about my future.I have stayed in Harbin for three years and I married my husband for 2 years. Time is flying, right? Yeah!It is flying!

I tried to acclimatize myself to the new environment including everything about my life. Emotion, climate, work, and daily living. I thought I am like a powerful plant,cacti, that I would have a very good life anf I would survive whatever the environment is. Two years past, I am still trying my best to acclimatize everything here.

Life is not what I imagined to be. I feel unhappy sometimes, I was thinking about leaving here to make something new. Well, I could be a responsible lady,right? I have to face all problems, no matter it is from life or work. No one would lead his life without problems and difficulties, eh? I encouraged myself to live in the world and be happy and relax.

Anyway, Chinese New Year is going to leave. I feel that 2009 is here actually from that day. It is a new start whatever comed, comes and will come. Go, Nana, to accept and act it out!